WHAT ARE YOU MAINLY DOING NOW?
– Little by little. I do bondage and female domination workshops, sell shibari ropes, do shows at events, host femdom parties and private sessions for men. Sometimes I work as a decorator on ordinary holidays, I help in organizing them.
– WHAT DO CLIENTS WANT IN PRIVATE SESSIONS?
– Such sessions rarely happen, I have no advertisements on the resources for dominatrix. I don’t want to appear on sites for leisure, but I managed to quarrel with the owner of the site “Domina.ru” because I posted another post on a feminist topic and he couldn’t stand it. Clients find me through thematic groups in VKontakte, where I am a member, and my website .
– WHAT KIND OF PEOPLE ARE THEY?
– Mistresses are usually written by everyone: from shkoloty to pensioners from Novy Urengoy.
– HOW DOES A DOMINATRIX DIFFER FROM PROSTITUTES WITH BDSM DEVICES?
– A real domina has no sexual practices, she does not fulfill any whim for your money, no matter what the gentlemen crowed, living by the principle “I do not read, but I condemn”. As a rule, she has a specialization in practices and taboos, that is, she will not do something even for money. This is a Western approach, and that’s what I’m taking. Another question is that over time, as I said, the list of practices is expanding. For example, before I had a taboo feminization (dressing a man in women’s clothes, a kind of humiliation games. – Ed.) Just from ignorance of the issue, and then I tried it.
Yes, some of the representatives of the ancient profession provide the services of the lady, in addition to the classics. But not everyone is like that! Among the male subjects there is also a category of those who like to whine about the fact that they were dominated for money without a soul. As a rule, these are the same people who are outraged: “What is so dear to you ?! But I saw the same thing three times cheaper! ” Coincidence? I do not think.
– BUT IS IT CONSIDERED A SEXUAL PRACTICE, FOR EXAMPLE, A STRAP-ON?
– There is a fuzzy situation here. From the point of view of the law, no. But for guys, a meeting with a domina, both for money and for interest, can be perceived as intricate sex, although their fantasies rarely correspond to reality.
– AND FOR YOU?
– For me, a commercial session is not a sexual practice, I never undress, and I consider a strapon to be the same device as a whip or rope. If this is a meeting with a personal partner at home, that’s another story.
– WHAT DO CUSTOMERS WANT?
– Someone wants to try to mate. There are experienced people with specific wishes, a clear list of preferences and taboos. But it rarely happens when a client knows exactly what he wants. Most just want to try bondage and hanging, some want submission and classic femdom.
There are few requests for commercial sessions, and even from them I do not take all of them. This avoids routine obligations. I also refuse to hang very large people, because it takes too much effort. Those for whom my prices seem high immediately disappear – there are offers on leisure sites that are much cheaper.
– THERE A SESSION CAN COST 5–8 THOUSAND, BUT WHAT ABOUT YOU?
– Three times more expensive. I focus on other prices, and this cuts off not my people.
– WHAT DETERMINES THE PRICE OF THE SESSION?
– From how much you rate your skills, how long you practice and whether commercial domination is the main source of income. It is possible to carry out them for 50 thousand, if you put yourself correctly and set up the search for the target audience. There are ladies who run an equipped studio and spend money on rent. Devices are also expensive – the cheapest set of two floggers, which must be bought from private craftsmen, costs 7 thousand rubles. Not to mention other toys and fetish outfits. Plus, some have an entire wardrobe for feminization lovers: a bunch of shoes, lingerie, and plus-size dresses. Someone has a medical office with tools for a medfetish, is spent on security, and so on. And also self-care procedures are needed, because appearance is an important part of the profession.